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You’ll get better at talking to women and understanding them as well. If you can accept who you are and you’re comfortable in your own skin, you’ll be much more attractive to women. Started off as a dirt poor dating coach before becoming one of the leading dating experts. I still don’t see myself as some crazy player but just a normal guy that loves the game.

So, be attentive and listen. If you can’t handle hearing this girl talk, then she’s probably not a good match for you anyway. #7 Ask her on a date.

Instead of pursuing every single beautiful woman, hoping she’ll shower you with her attention, you’re being selective about who you want to be your girlfriend. You’ll start giving off the vibe that you don’t need women to make your life complete. You’ll take more risks, find approaching and talking to girls less daunting and won’t worry about the consequences. Talking about exes or girls who’ve slipped through your fingers – If you’re negative about past experiences with women you’ll sound bitter.

On the date start by complimenting her. Women can spend hours choosing a dress, putting on make up and doing their hair for the first date. She’s done this all for you don’t forget to show your appreciation with an honest compliment. Stop trying to get a girlfriend.

Dan has been helping new men succeed with women for more than 14 years. In terms of how to get a girlfriend, game playing won’t get you very far. If you’re not replying to her messages and behaving really distant and disinterested, she will move on from you. She needs to know you’re serious about her and actually want to be in a relationship.

• If you have been trying to hook up with a girl for a while and it’s just not happening, be sure to arrive at that concert with a woman on your arm and you might find that the tables will turn.
• When it comes time to pop the question itself, choosing the right setting, waiting for the right moment, and conveying how you feel clearly and directly will make the job much easier.
• The journey of forming incredible relationships with amazing women, that dream future of yours, doesn’t start with changing what you’re doing and how you’re talking but taking control and responsibility for how you feel.
• Be wary, when a girl is hooked, she’s hooked and you can’t do anything about it.

The Next Step (If you already have one special girl in mind)

After the first date, it’s important to start sowing the seeds of intimacy. Sex shouldn’t be something you tiptoe around and hint at – it should be a natural progression of the sexual chemistry already created by the pair of you. A real man should be confident enough to lead the way. People get nervous before dates because they don’t know what to expect.

Girls want to feel appreciated and valued and if they think they are a short term sex object, you will never score. Women love to feel special, no doubt. So if you are talking with a girl and you can sense, see and feel she is losing interest in you, then you are about to be rejected.

What makes her special? Why is she beautiful to you?

Don’t spend too much time flirting in messages. Nothing beats a face-to-face interaction.