Read more about how to tell if a girl is interested in you here.

You’re telling her that you’re not confident that she does like you…which means she’ll start looking for a reason not to. And just like that, you’ve conjured a massive roadblock out of thin air like a lovelorn Harry Houdini.

When a girl clearly likes you, she will initiate more personal discussions. For example, soon after meeting her, you can already know a lot about her family, friends, or even past relationships and goals for the future. If she is willing to disclose that information, you can definitely consider her to be very interested in you romantically. This sign of a girl’s attraction is particularly useful if you haven’t spent too much time alone yet but are already seemingly interested in each other.

And while rejecting your friend’s romantic advance saves you from the possibility of breaking up later, it still has the potential to damage, or even end, your friendship. Sadly, the classic line—“I don’t want to ruin our friendship”—can ring hollow to someone who truly likes (or maybe even loves) you. If your friend straight up tells you that they like you, take it seriously. Even if you don’t like them back, have a talk with them and let them know, in no uncertain terms, how you feel. You might be worried that you’ll lose their friendship, but it’s better than stringing them along and making them think they have a chance with you.

By social cues, I mean the subtle signs, like body language and conversational patterns, that can help let you know how someone else is feeling. To ask a girl out over text, start by sending an opening message to get your conversation going, like, “Hey, how’s your day going?

Behaviors Indicating a Girl Is Interested In You

• However, if you notice that the girl you’re wondering about dresses a little more nicely around you, it could be a sign that she wants to impress you.
• This also shows a level a trust the girl must have with you.
• If they deliberately encourage you or give you time to be alone with her, then they not only like you, but they also know she likes you.
• Her friends may also try to get to know to you with personal questions to make sure you’re a good guy.
• Still, they may look at you often but look away when you catch them.

As you talk, notice if she gives you any signs or hints that she likes you or if uses vaguely romantic language. She could also show her interest in you by nodding frequently or repeating some of your phrases.

And other stuff. I’m already dating someone, and I like my best friend. This is the second time and last time I chose the other person he called me a slut and now stares at me when he sees me, and the person I was dating broke up with me because of trust issues in a relationship with me. Now I have a crush on her and I don’t even like my gf in that way and she is hardcore into me and idk what to do because she has been broken up with so many times. I’m honestly stuck and not sure what to do.

And if you thought this was her friendzoning him, you were mistaken. It’s her trying to be part of his life. Just look at her second reply.

In this case she’s trying to show her body language by using emoticons. She is trying hard to belong. She literally says “I’m your friend also”.

Now a socially inept boob of a guy will memorize a list like this, and anytime he sees a woman display any of these signals he’ll immediately assume that she’s attracted to him sexually. Indeed, studies have shown that many men have a hard time interpreting social cues, particularly sexual ones. Psychologist Monica Moore spent a few months observing over 200 single women at parties, bars, clubs, and restaurants.

Doesn’t sound like she’s super interested from what you said, she might just view you as a good friend. It’s hard to tell without more info.