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Don’t make jokes that are mean-spirited, mock, or ridicule her or other people. If you want her to be your girlfriend, be kind to her and others, or you could drive her away. This is especially true of choosing the best time for «turning points». Example, when you ask her out for the «first date», or when you ask her to go from «just friend» to «girlfriend».

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If a friend tells you not to let this guy or girl in, you need to tell that friend to mind his or her own business. This is your life, and your future…not your friend’s. It would be a bummer to look back on life with regret that you didn’t make that first move or take a relationship you cared about to the next level. Don’t give up on a girl that easily. You probably don’t meet girls who stand out to you on a daily basis, so seize the opportunity.

Anyone who’s at a coffee shop past the morning rush is likely to be there for a long haul, which nicely eliminates any time constraints you may encounter when you’re out meeting people. #11 Be ready to commit. Make sure you’re ready to commit to being in a relationship.

It’s OK to take baby steps.

Communicate your life story to them in a way which is humble, fun, and interested (and creates a little attraction in women) and the right people WILL notice. This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore. To assure you WILL be ready when the time and the right woman comes along.

• You do the math.
• You aren’t going to find someone who matches you perfectly.
• ” Next, tell her how you feel about her and ask her to be your girlfriend.
• People that want to communicate with someone, will make sure it happens.

Instead, be comfortable in your own skin and content being single. When you reach this point you will be open to finding a relationship and it will subsequently come to you. Women want to feel like you’re choosing to be with them, not that you’re desperately seeking a relationship and can’t live without a girlfriend. To ask a girl to be your girlfriend, wait for the chance to talk to her alone in person.

Whatever it is, don’t worry about getting rejected and get on with life. Approach girls and don’t be afraid if they reject you or don’t want to talk to you. It’s happened to every guy.

7) Ask questions and be genuinely interested in what she has to say

You don’t analyse, you don’t judge, you listen. As a bonus, you’ll see how much easier it is to take conversation forward when you know when you remember what the other person just said. 11. Always comfort her when she’s sad.

Take her out and have a nice weekend getaway. You don’t have to plan everything yourself, suggest the idea to her and she’ll be happy to do her bit of the googling. 9. Tell her you love her, but also show her.

Whether you’ve been casually dating, exchanging flirty messages, or hanging out only as friends, asking a girl to be your girlfriend can be a nerve-wracking experience. But it doesn’t have to be! You can ask her with confidence by using a few strategies. If you’ve built a great friendship with her, asking her to be your girlfriend will come easily. You can also try to figure out if she’s interested in being your girlfriend before you ask her so you can do it with confidence.

So, don’t be shy in your pursuit to get a girlfriend. Get out there and find your next relationship. #10 Know what to do under the sheets.