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But allow some time for you to both get to know each other well. And let her know that you’re interested in the possibility of having the relationship develop into something more serious that a mere fling.
If a friend tells you not to let this guy or girl in, you need to tell that friend to mind his or her own business. This is your life, and your future…not your friend’s. It would be a bummer to look back on life with regret that you didn’t make that first move or take a relationship you cared about to the next level. Don’t give up on a girl that easily. You probably don’t meet girls who stand out to you on a daily basis, so seize the opportunity.
As men, we usually have periods in our lives where our only goal seems to be to spread seeds like a bee with a severe pollen addiction. But in the end, what we really end up wanting is a serious, committed and happy relationship.
When things are going well and everything feels so right… it’s hard to think rationally at times, even though we are ashamed of our eagerness in retrospect when the infatuation chemicals have worn off. It’s important to remember that these things can be a serious step for many people — even if you don’t think so at the time. Rushing into things like this too quickly will often scare the girl away. Yet, if you just talk to women in a friendly neutral type of way and try to have serious conversations all the time, then you’re not going to be making most of the women that you meet feel a spark for you. When considering how to get a girlfriend most people say ‘be funny’.
And that’s ok — that’s part of the process and it might be something you need to do just like I did. Women are drawn to people who believe in themselves. Who know what they want.
Not only does finding a girl friend seem like an impossible task although you do break it down into steps for success. With the best intentions I must inform you that no girl likes me. It has been tested time and time again and with scientific evidence to boot I can say that it isn’t in the cards for me to find a dream girl much less any girl. I am the nicest guy I know. I’ve evolved into the kind of guy I wanted to be and I really like myself.
Women LOVE a man who is well-dressed. It shows us that maybe you have your life together and that you have a sense of fashion (which means you might be able to pick out a decent gift for us when holidays and birthdays come around). Looking put together is a must when trying to snag a potential partner. No one, and I mean no one, goes for the guy out at a function in his sweatpants.
Don’t treat the service people badly. Many women have been involved in the service industry before in one capacity or another, and if they see you treating another individual in a demanding manner, they will often read that as a sign of the demanding individual you may become later in the relationship.
Women love to feel special, no doubt. So if you are talking with a girl and you can sense, see and feel she is losing interest in you, then you are about to be rejected.
When she’s on a roll, share her enthusiasm. (If you can’t, you’re with the wrong girl.) From there it’s an easy transition to making plans to do something you’re both interested in. What it comes down to is, closing takes place all the time, not just after the bar rings the last-call bell.