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This one is kind of sad because, ideally, you should always have a friend’s full attention when you talk to them! However, in this day and age of constant distraction, you’ll find that most people aren’t listening to everything you say. They’ll either start periodically checking their phones or daydreaming the moment they get bored with what you’re saying. People even do this with their own romantic partners. You should consider these questions because if you like your friend as more than a friend, you will probably interpret their actions differently and see «signs» that aren’t really there.
When a guy is talking to a girl that he likes, he would probably start sweating or struggling with words. It is different with girls. When a girl is talking to a guy that she likes, her voice becomes a little different. You will notice that her pitch will be a little higher.
From her observations, she found over 52 things women do when they’re attracted to a man. They don’t have to do all of them or in any particular order to indicate interest; some women have their go-to flirty moves. Though, the more of these signals you see and the more often you see a woman display them, the more likely it is that she’s attracted to you and would welcome your advances.
If she adds you online, there is definitely some sort of interest there. She may be trying to look at your relationship status, your interests, or maybe she just wants to see your status updates to learn more about you.
– Remember, don’t read too much into her behavior if she is talking to “guy friends”. It’s likely that she’s comfortable around them, which may cause you to wrongly think that she romantically likes them. She even might try to pull you in the conversation to show she likes you or she’ll take a step back from the guy she’s talking to show you it’s nothing romantic.
If she exits a conversation with her friends to speak to you, even just to catch up and say hi, she might just be interested in being more than friends with you. This means that she notices you, or that she finds you interesting enough to leave her friends for the chance at a conversation with you.
And asking you to teach her archery or how to code is a great way of indicating that she’d like to spend more time together without explicitly asking for a date. But given what social media addicts we all are these days, if a woman doesn’t check her phone once in the span of 30 minutes, that means she’s at least engaged enough that you should feel comfortable to ask if you should continue the conversation over drinks sometime.
A lot. While a true friend will understand if you just don’t feel that way and will hopefully get over it and move on, it’s important to understand that it may take a while. It’s likely that they’re genuinely hurting in the wake of your rejection.
Let’s say she won’t look at you, or talk to you at all, and when you ask her questions she responds to someone else instead of to you. If that happens, there’s a damn good chance that she likes you so much that she’s freezing up and doesn’t know what to do. Of course she might actually hate you but realistically unless you’re genuinely an unlikeable asshole that’s probably not the case. Also girls tend to like and trust guys that their friends vouch for so if you have mutual friends there’s no real reason for her to actively dislike you.
It’s like, wow, this person is in the world, and I’m so excited about them! I might not say it to my crush’s face, necessarily—it’s kinda weird to say someone’s name to them over and over again—but you bet I’ll be dropping their name into conversation with my friends or their friends. If she seems to like saying your name a lot, and she name-drops you to your friends… she definitely likes you, dude. Trust me on this one. Well, first of all, rejection isn’t the end of the world.
This only works if you share a class, job, or regular event with her, but you should be able to notice if she looks for you when she knows you will be around. If she walks into a room and she knows you’re going to be there, pay close attention.